Say it once. Then just date.
Four short steps on your profile. After that, nobody has to ask.
Pick what you can't be near
Nine foods and six things in the air or around the house, from peanuts to perfume to fresh hay. Pick every one that matters to you.
Say how hard each one hits
If an allergy is severe or anaphylactic, you never see anyone whose home has it, however well the rest fits. Milder ones count toward how well you fit.
- Mild
- Counts a little toward fit
- Sensitive
- Counts a lot toward fit
- Severe
- Homes with it are hidden
- Anaphylactic
- Homes with it are hidden
Set your house and kiss rules
Tell people what your kitchen is like, and how long they should wait after eating something before a kiss. They see it before they like you.
Your rules
Meet people who already fit
You only see people whose homes and habits work with yours, and each one shows how well you fit. Like each other and you can start talking.
The vow, inside every match
Once you match, either of you can sign a safety vow: your kitchen and kiss rules, signed and saved so they can't quietly change later. Nobody has to sign. It's their word on the record, not a guarantee.
Alex's vow