A hard no, not a hint
If your allergy is severe or anaphylactic, you never see anyone whose home has it. No setting turns that off.
Safe feels like being taken seriously.
What we do so dates feel easy, and what stays up to you.
A rough area, never your spot
We keep a rough area, less than a mile across. Other people see how many miles away you are, never where.
Your health details stay yours
We use what you avoid, and how badly, only to find who fits you. We never sell it or show it to advertisers.
A private exposure timer
Ate something your date avoids? Note it in your chat and a countdown tells you when your kiss buffer is over. Only you see it.
Reports a person reads
Report anyone from their profile or your chat. A real person reads every report, and anyone who ignores someone's safety rules can lose their account.
Block in one tap
Block someone and you vanish for each other, profiles and chat alike.
What we can't do
- We don't run criminal background checks or check anyone's identity.
- We don't check diagnoses. Everything on a profile is self-reported.
- We aren't doctors, and we can't sit at the table with you.
- We don't certify restaurants, kitchens or venues.
Carry your medication on every date. If a reaction starts, use it and call 911 or your local emergency number.
Before you meet
Talk here first
Keep the chat on LoveAllergy until you trust them, so you can report or block if you need to.
Meet in public
Pick a busy place for the first few dates, and get there and home on your own.
Tell a friend
Say who you're meeting, where, and when you expect to be back.
Bring your medication
Carry it on every date, and tell your date where it is and how to use it.
Check the menu yourself
A match's rules help, but you know your allergy best. Ask the venue, read labels, and leave if something feels wrong.
Never send money
Anyone who asks for money, gift cards or financial details is someone to report.
Trust your gut
You can leave at any time. Report anyone who ignores your rules or makes you feel unsafe.